In our experience, most people generally fall into one of seven general categories:

The Wallflower
May have lots of knowledge and desires, but is always an observer of life, never a participant.
•    Strengths: Intelligence, Self-Awareness
•    Weaknesses: Physical, Emotional Strength, Emotional Flexibility, Lifestyle
•    Skill(s) to Focus On: Taking action

Mr. /Mrs. Nice Guy (or Gal)
Sensitive, aware, and insightful; often suffers from social anxiety, shyness, and a lack of assertiveness and comfort with sexuality.
•    Strengths: Intelligence, Self-Awareness, Emotional Flexibility
•    Weaknesses: Physical, Emotional Strength, Lifestyle
•    Skill(s) to Focus On: Taking chances, being assertive


The Fun One
Fun and light-hearted, people like being around you, but often don’t take you seriously.
•    Strengths: Intelligence, Humor, Engaging Content, Access to Events, Social Network
•    Weaknesses: Self-Awareness, Self-Control, Self-Esteem, Patience
•    Skill(s) to Focus On: Developing sincerity, gravitas; adjusting as appropriate


The Jerk/Bitch
Assertive and bold, they may attract people’s attention, but often have few genuine relationships.
•    Strengths: Assertiveness, decisiveness, non-reactivity
•    Weaknesses: Emotional flexibility, self-awareness, self-control, values & ethics
•    Skill(s) to Focus On: Patience, Empathy, Sensitivity


The Best Friend
Fun to be around and empathetic, you listen to other’s problems but people never think of you as anything more. If you’re the one always listening to that guy or girl you like complain about their boyfriend/girlfriend while secretly wishing you two could be more, this is you.

•    Strengths: Sensitivity, empathy, engaging content, patience
•    Weaknesses: Comfort with sexuality, assertiveness, decisiveness, self-esteem
•    Skill(s) to Focus On: Understanding emotional progression, comfort with sexuality


Mr. or Mrs. Responsibility
The designated driver. Dependable, empathetic, and aware, you live by strict moral codes that often hinder your ability to connect with others. You secretly wish you could just “have fun”, but you have a sense of guilt about just ‘letting go’.
•    Strengths: Values & ethics, self-discipline, self-control 
•    Weaknesses: Confidence, humor, self-esteem, non-reactivity
•    Skill(s) to Focus On: Learning to relax, try something new, have fun

The Party Animal
The opposite of Mr. or Mrs. Responsibility. You live a life of fun, moving from party to party, crazy story to crazy story. People think of you as fun and exciting, but you have a hard time forming, deep, meaningful connections with them. You have style, but lack substance.
•    Strengths: Assertiveness, decisiveness, energy, ‘having fun’
•    Weaknesses: Values & ethics, self-awareness, self-control, empathy
•    Skill(s) to Focus On: Understanding your values, self-esteem, patience, empathy


Which one are YOU?